What is a common cause of frustration in toddlers?

A common cause of frustration in toddlers is indeed their lack of control over their environment. At this developmental stage, toddlers are beginning to assert their independence but often find themselves limited by their circumstances. This yearning for control can lead to feelings of frustration, especially when they are unable to express themselves verbally or when their attempts to explore and exert autonomy are met with restrictions from caregivers or the surrounding environment.

Toddlers are naturally curious and want to engage with their world, but they may not yet have the skills or understanding to navigate it fully. When they encounter obstacles—like being told "no" or not being able to reach a desired toy—this can manifest as toddler tantrums or bouts of anger. This frustration is normal as they are learning to cope with the limitations imposed on them and are still developing their emotional regulation skills.

In contrast, while overindulgence, excessive screen time, or praise from peers can influence a toddler's behavior and emotional responses, they are less directly linked to the universal, foundational struggle for control that most toddlers face as they navigate their early years. Understanding this aspect of toddler development can help caregivers provide appropriate support and boundaries that can ease some of this frustration.